Will the REAL P31 woman stand up?
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The women and men we serve send encouragement, comments, and thoughts to us about our devotions. We are blessed by them and many times use them to enhance our devotions. One comment we continue to receive that puzzles this group of ordinary women is: "It seems that you all have it ALL together." We chuckle each time we hear it, not meaning any disrespect to the sender. We chuckle because it is so far from the truth.

We are women like the lady you work out beside at the gym. You have seen us in the grocery store struggling with a cart full of food and crying children. We may have glanced at each other in the feminine protection isle at Target or perhaps shared at smile at Starbucks while we waited for our tall, non-fat skinny mocha with a pump of something or other.

So I decided to give you a glimpse of the life of this P31 woman. Over the next week I will post some photos of my house. Let me preface this exhibit by saying these ARE NOT staged pictures. What you see in the photos is what you would see if you walked in my house. It is my desire to show you that I am just a woman, who happens to love and serve God in public ministry.

Let me start with the laundry, everyone woman's favorite thing to do. We have a balcony area in our home. My children make a game out of the throwing the laundry over the banister into piles. Sometimes they sort but most of the time it just gets thrown in a big pile. Monday is laundry day at our house. But something happened this Monday, let's see what was it, oh yea, LIFE, and the laundry did not get done. When my daughter told me today that she did not have any brown socks, I knew I better do some laundry. Here's it is after I sorted it:


Check out this bedroom dresser, the first place that everything gets dumped. My dresser has looked like this for about month now. No kidding. I am really kind of embarrassed that I just said that. I better put "clean the dresser off" on the Saturday to do list. Notice the bag of trash. Arggh!

Well, I think this is about all the honesty I can muster up for now.

Even in the clutter I want to live to make Him famous!


12 Comments:

Blogger Van said...

Wendy is this a form of true confessions? Just tonight I had an embarassing moment, but then I simply had to shrug it off. The phone rang and some friends asked if they could drop in really quick. Of course I had to say yes. Then I went into panic mode. I soon realized there was no way I could make the house presentable in ten minutes. In my den three projects were taking place - all abandoned: folded clothes in a hamper, a pile of yarn with a half finished baby blanket, and the mail. The kitchen sink was full of dirty dishes because I had forgotten to turn on the dishwasher... get the picture? I took a deep breath when the door bell rang and tried to look dignified. "So glad you could drop by. Come on in."
Me a P31 woman? Sure - all smiles and hospitality. Who cares what I look like. So what if the house is a mess. Life is too short!

Anonymous Anonymous said...

OK, if you can confess, then so can I! We have to eat whatever meals we get here in the Tugman Cafe in the dining room (no fine china though, only styrofoam plates for us!) because no one can get a plate to lay flat on the kitchen table due to all the papers and pens, pencils, Jeff's work mess, old mail, Trevor's old homework assignments, Brynne's various girl things... the fact that the table has not collapsed under the weight of it all says something about the integrity of the table itself! OK, one day soon I'm going to start me a blog too! One day... love you! Happy Valentines Day Darling! Dawn

Blogger Dawn Ward said...

Wendy, Thank you for sharing that, and thanks to Van, too.

I am not a good housekeeper. I have struggled with it my whole life. Most of the time it keeps me feeling like a total failure. I'm not a very good cook either. I can follow a recipe and throw stuff together, but the truth is, I don't like to cook. There! I said it!

I carry lots of guilt because I feel the Proverbs 31 woman is who I'm supposed to be, but I feel like I'll never get there. I keep thinking this is how God would have me serve my family, and I'm failing miserably.

Then, of course, 'ole Satan jumps in and starts with the reminders that if I can't even do these things, how on earth do I think God can use me in ministry?

Thanks for letting me get that out, and thanks for being real with us.

Blessings,
Dawn

Blogger MelissaTaylor.org said...

What???!!!! Wendy are you trying to tell us that you are not a REAL Proverbs 31 Perfect Woman??? I've been had! You seem to have it all together:)

Wendy, you rock! Thanks for doing this! You will not believe this, but just yesterday I took a picture of my laundry hamper before the 2 hour session of folding it began. It was as tall as Hayley Grace! No kidding. Then after finishing it, HG got in the hamper and I took another picture. I was going to blog today and call it "Mt. Laundry"...seriously! Come and see it a little later as I'll be writing in all my free time after I eat my bon bons!

This is a great idea! And I admit, you are so well put together in the office, it does make me smile to see your dresser looking like that...I NEVER would have thought that was your dresser!

I love you more than ever now!
Love,
Melissa

Blogger Holly said...

LOVED this Wendy! You are so funny. My dresser looks the same my friend! Thanks for making me feel normal.
love you,
holly

Blogger Zoe said...

Wendy,

I love the pictoral confession and your willingness to share your life as a REAL woman. Are you sure the picture of that dresser is in your house; I have one that looks just like that.

Blogger Fields of gold said...

Absolutely! I almost had to call for rescue this morning after tunneling my way deep into my mountain of clean (and now thoroughly wrinkled) clothes for just one pair of matching socks. Why are they so elusive!? Thank you for breaking the myth and tyranny of the P31 Women! It is for freedom that Christ has set us free and you are a beau-ti-ful example of His grace!

Love you! Samantha

Blogger Charlene Kidd said...

Wendy,
I love your thought. You are so right, we are not perfect. I am with Zoe, Van, and Melissa, I have a dresser that looks like that too. I was running with that thought on my post about my to do list, but I did not add any pictures. I will have to add the pictures. I love your honesty.
Charlene

Blogger Charlene Kidd said...

Wendy,
I love your thought. You are so right, we are not perfect. I am with Zoe, Van, and Melissa, I have a dresser that looks like that too. I was running with that thought on my post about my to do list, but I did not add any pictures. I will have to add the pictures. I love your honesty.
Charlene

Blogger Jodie Wolfe said...

So it looks like we all are striving to be Proverbs 31 women, but have our struggles as well. A snapshot of my home right now would yield pretty much the same as yours Wendy, perhaps even worse! With having various ones of us sick on and off the past few weeks and my husband having surgery two days ago, the house just hasn't been too important.

Blogger Celly B said...

Thanks for your honesty, Wendy! It gets so discouraging trying to keep house with two little ones. As soon as one area is cleaned up, another area becomes even worse! Your transparency makes me feel a little better!

Blogger Joyful said...

I'm so with Holly. I'm glad to know I'm 'normal'. Thanks for being real!
Blessings,
Joy
Does this mean I DON'T have to go clean off my dresser now?

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